The bonds with our loved ones aren’t broken by their passing. However, sometimes emotions like guilt, pain, or anguish can keep us connected to them from a place of sadness, making it hard to move forward. These dense emotions hold us back, creating a “negative” connection with our loved one. In sessions, I often see the fear that, if we stop feeling sadness, we might forget them, which unnecessarily prolongs the grieving process. Deep Healing sessions help release those emotional weights that hold you in grief, allowing you to redefine the bond or accept your loved one’s departure from the physical world. In this way, you can move forward, feeling their love in your heart, and from a place of peace.
Here is the story of a session I gave that reflects this transformative process.
A few days before the session, I began to feel a strong desire to knit. Where did this come from? The last and only time I had knitted was in ’82, when I made a scarf for the Malvinas soldiers…
Days passed, and things just seemed to flow… In what little time I had, I somehow got yarn, needles, and tutorials, and so my knitting adventure began.
Then came the session… I ended up talking about my mom, remembering her, healing the little girl I was and who is still here within me today. The need, the plea that she not leave me alone, is still there. I recognized that I learned to be alone, and with that came the lack of confidence in my own resources, the fear, and a part of me that didn’t grow and wasn’t able to expand.
My connection with Cris was strong, and through her words, I could feel that perhaps my mom did believe in my abilities. I also felt her support, wherever she may be. As the session closed, I felt my racing heart calm; I felt a sense of relief…
Knitting stayed with me all week… How strange, I never knit, but it feels so familiar. It makes me feel energized; it’s like grounding myself.
And once again, a strong urge reminded me of the yarn I’d seen in the wardrobe. I go to get it and find bags filled with yarn. They were my mom’s… In her last days, she spent time knitting. She had made me a knitted top, finished it just before she passed…
The doctor who used to visit her at home later told me she did this so that my sister and I would know that no matter the circumstances, we can always keep going, we can always do something…
I remembered all this as I watched the colorful skeins of yarn coming out of my wardrobe. I was there with my son, and I didn’t feel sad; rather, I felt a strong energy vibrating through my entire being… I felt my mother was right there with us, that this was her way of embracing me and, in a tangible way, without time or distance, showing me her full support.
Thank you, Cris!
Cinthia A.
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